GETTING DIVORCED?

"Is there anything better than the Rule of Law? Is there a realistic alternative to the legal system? I believe there is. It is one in which results are obtained voluntarily, And decisions are made by consensus; Where parties design the form and content of their negotiations, Where there is informality and infinite capacity for creative results ... It is one where emotions are expressed, acknowledged and respected; Where greater concern is shown for the future than the past, Where third parties facilitate without deciding, and as empathetic rather than neutral. It is one in which people are encouraged to act honestly, Empathetically, collaboratively, humbly and creatively; Where forgiveness and reconciliation are encouraged; Where people are allowed to be human, direct and open; Where anyone can understand what is happening And participate fully without professional jargon. It is one without coercion, That encourages collaboration and permits both sides to win. IT IS MEDIATION". (Ken Cloke.)